Three stops later, I position myself to get off the still-crowded train. He turned his head and looked at me. I nodded.
When the train stopped and the doors opened, he stepped off the train and stood to one side so that I, and others behind me, could get off.
What just happened?
The eyes said it all.
He looked at me with eyes that said, "Are you getting off?" I nodded to say, "Yes."
Pinoys communicate with their facial expressions, not so much the rest of their body. So, technically, I can't call it body language, rather facial language. Observe Filipinos talking to each other. Yes, they talk a lot! (No offence here. I love Filipinos and have lots of good Filipino friends!) Very often, they use their eyes to say something, raise their eyebrows to say "yes", or purse their lips in a direction to point to something. (No, they're not offering to kiss you.) It is quite easy to read their facial language. I find it a very effective way to communicate. Words not required.
Some nationalities talk with their hands. I do. Filipinos talk with their faces.
Body language surpasses the need to know another's language in order to communicate. Then again, body language is a language in itself!
Have fun learning to communicate cross-culturally!
